Happiness

Is there an illusion of happiness or is happiness one of those things that feel like an illusion to you? Happiness is really everywhere. All you have to do is walk by a playground and you can practically smell the happiness. And yet we look at the carefree playing of children and determine that those days were nice, but over. Why? Our happiness is not attached to an age. Sure, our teens might have been a little rough but then we wouldn’t be part of the national rite of passage had they not been. Happiness isn’t about being young, it is about being free on the inside.

I read a story about a concentration camp survivor once. He was a man of pure and tender happiness even in the face of terrible tragedy. His fellow Jews felt that his happiness was disrespectful to the loss that encompassed the camp. He simply looked around, his joy apparent, and explained that the Nazi’s could take his home, his family, and his money, but they did not have a right to his happiness.

There is a lot about happiness that we have yet to learn. We do not know exactly what makes us happy but we recognize happiness when it drowns us. We are busy people, and it seems that we are willing to trade our homes, our family, and our money to the corporate world. It seems that many of us are also willing to trade our happiness.

When parents are happy

Happiness has numbers of definitions and descriptions. People are different and so happiness is different for them. Though, I guess the real happiness deals with people we love and care about. Happiness is when your parents are happy. You are happy when you see them smiling and you see them joyful and bright. Happiness is when you know for sure they are okay and they are health and there is nothing that frustrates them. That is what I guess happiness for a number of people is. You see your parents and they are happy. They are happy together and each of them is happy alone and this is when you really feel you have nothing to worry about and everything else is of no importance and you are happy because the dearest people in your life are happy. We are happy when happy those people we love and care about, but in case there is something that hurts them and something that frustrates them, there is no way for us to be happy with our successes and the whole stuff. We need people we love to be happy because otherwise there is no happiness for us.

The matter of personality

Happiness is not like table or pen or something. You can’t see it and you can’t touch it and you can do nothing with it because it is deprived of material surface. It is a mental phenomenon and this is the main trouble about happiness. That is the main reason for why people can’t answer the question what is happiness and they can’t also say if they are happy or they are not. Happiness is something that you can only feel and that is all, but still, even if you are happy how would you know that this feeling inside of you is really happiness but not affection or joy or excitement or something? I guess it is only time that can prove you are right when you say you are happy. Happiness cones and never leaves because it is a feeling that comes when you find something you were looking for. That is the moment when happiness comes and in case you are a wise person this happiness will never leave you. And so, in order to become happy people have to find that precious something they really need but at first they have to figure out what that something is.

Everything clear

There is sometimes a mass in your life. From time to time something comes into our lives and twists everything. One moment this life was perfectly ordered and things were extremely clear and the very next moment everything up-side-down and you can’t realize what is wrong with this life. You make an effort and then another and another but things are the same and they never get clear. At first you think you can fix everything and bring your life to order again but time lapses and things are the same. You whole life turns into mass and there is no even a single idea in your head about how to deal with this mass. It irritates you and soon you can’t even sleep because you don’t feel okay about your life. It used to be like a cozy room and now it is like a ruined city or something. It will take much of you to bring things to order again. You will spend much time for it and much efforts but at last you gonna make it. And when things back to order again and your life is clear and not like a mass you feel satisfied with this life and you are happy.

No allowed to be happy

Happiness is of vitally importance for all people. People want to be happy they need to be happy otherwise there is no point in this life. Why would one need life in case he or she can’t be happy? Life for no feelings or life for sorrow? It is not a life, you know. People want to be happy and they need to be happy, but there are such people who think they have no right to be happy. It is a subconscious knowledge and people may not even know they are sick with this knowledge. As a rule such people forbid themselves to be happy and they follow this rule and find people and events that make them not happy and that depress tem and so on. It happens in case a person was mentally hurt in the very childhood. You know, there are parents who think the best way to make child do something is the way of humiliation or calling for its conscience. And with these actions parents make their children believe they are bad people and they own everything to everyone and they have to pay their depts. for people and they have no right to be happy because they are bad people.

The meaning of life

Those people are happy who know the meaning of this life. They know why they are here and they know what they are doing here. They know the reason for them to wake up in the morning and they know the reason or them to struggle whatever happens. They know the price of this life and they know why they need it. And it is happiness indeed. Those people are happy who know the truth about their lives, though, there is no one common meaning of life for all people and there could not be such a meaning,. This life is huge and this life consists of a number of lives of different people and each of those lives has its meaning. It doesn’t matter which thing is the most important in your life but it matters for you to know for sure that this thing really matters. You can’t live just like that for nothing. It is not life but obligation. It is like you are alive and you must to remain so no matter the fact that you don’t really want it. But, life starts for those people who know the meaning of their lives and they are happy people and they are actually the happiest people in the world.

Happy people never…

Happy people never a number of things and those things they never do are like he symptoms of happiness. First of all happy people are never envious or jealous about other people. A happy person means a person who is satisfied with his or her life and this world we are living at. A happy person is pleased with this world and everything in this world and so there is nothing more this person may need and that is why a happy one will never be jealous about other people. And a happy person will also never bother about gossips. The life of a happy person is a great life and life full of everything bright and vivid and so people have no need in sticking their noses to lives of other people. Those who do, they are not happy people and they are in a lack of something and they are looking for that something in lives of other people because their own lives are too boring. So, happy people never bother about gossips and they are never envious and they are always ready to share their feelings with people around them.